Generally, I'm very friendly when I see other runners in my neighborhood, a common occurrence. There are a lot of runners in my town and it's nice to acknowledge their efforts when we're pounding the pavement together. Sometimes I know them, sometimes they're familiar faces without names, or other times they're complete strangers. I don't usually repeat loops, so it is rare that I will see the same runner more than once on a particular run. Most runners return the wave, but sometimes there are those who are in "the Zone" and don't want to be interrupted by niceties. Seeing the same person twice is kind of fun. It's like, "Hey you! You're doing a long workout! Cool! Me too." Seeing him a third time is like, "Yup, we're still at it." A fourth time? "Is this the only street you know or what?!"
How do you handle the "run-by"? Are you a social moron like myself who sometimes feels awkward in these situations? Do you wave or do you ignore?
Sunday (2/22/15) - 6 miles
Monday (2/23/15) - 7.54 miles
Wednesday (2/25/15) -7.54 miles
Thursday (2/26/15) - 6.4 miles
Saturday ( 2/28/15) - 10.61 miles
Total Mileage - 38.1 miles (so close to 40....!)
It's true, the first encounter is usually fun - "Yep, we're doing this!" The second time it's funny, "Oh, you again!" After that, minimal acknowledgement. I often see the same people running in my neighborhood. I try to be friendly, but I'll admit that I never acknowledge runners who run with traffic to their back. I don't want to associate with people that stupid.
ReplyDeleteYou're very judgmental. He or she might be Australian. You know, everything is backwards down there because it's America upside down.
DeleteIf that's the case, they should rename my neighborhood "Little Australia." Also, it is Australian to run practically in the middle of the street?
Delete"Running practically in the middle of the street" is Australian for beer.
DeleteI always acknowledge another runner with a waive or a hand gesture of some sort, and sometimes I offer a high five. And I frequently make hand gestures at drivers too!
ReplyDeleteI don't so much hand gesture at the drivers as I give them the "Are you a f*cking f*#k for brains?" look. I have a patent on that look.
DeleteI'm sure it's been very effective in changing their behavior.
DeleteThe selfishness, aggressiveness and stupidity of drivers never ceases to amaze me. Even before I became a runner, i would always slow down and give a runner, a cyclist, a walker or a person walking his or her dog extra room not simply as a matter of courtesy, but as a defensive driving technique. But now that I'm a runner, I have learned that I am in the minority as people routinely fly right by at full speed without giving an inch. What the hell is wrong with people?
DeleteAgreed. There have more times than I would like to count where I thought to myself, "This is how I die."
DeleteThere is no word for die in the Australian language.
DeleteYou people are hilarious.
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